Dr. Megan Fleming

“Life Shrinks or Expands in Proportion to One’s Courage” - Anais Nin


It’s great that you are here! We all have one life, perhaps no one has shown you how to experience yours fully. The time is now for you to know the strategies, skills, and tools to have what you want. We can show YOU how.

Live to your fullest

Are you ready to find your way to Great Life & Great Sex? This is where your journey begins. Chances are you're here because you've suffered some significant disappointment, frustration or pain in your relationship.

Have you experienced?

  • Infidelity or Affair
  • Addiction
  • Sexless marriage
  • Sexual dysfunction
  • Invisible divorce (living together and yet apart, alone but intersecting worlds)


If so, you are in the right place.


You are not alone. Your life as it looks now doesn't fulfill your needs. You've lost that loving feeling and struggle to remember those days when you felt connected and passionate with your partner.


Now you are at a fork in the road. You may have a never ending, intolerable feeling of stagnation or be in the midst of a crisis. Either way, these worst case scenarios are also your wake-up call and opportunity. How you choose to act on behalf of yourself and your relationship moving forward from this day can and will make the difference.


You can reclaim the relationship and the sex that you want for you and your partner. I can teach you the skills you need to help you and your relationship thrive. I am Dr. Megan Fleming, a clinical psychologist and AASECT-certified Diplomate in sex therapy and IMAGO-certified in couples therapy. With 15 years of experience in NYC helping others like you achieve the change they desire, I am here for you.


I can help, offering a variety of options to meet your needs. Choose the options that work best for you!

Recognizing that you are not living the life you want, having the sex you want or having the relationship you want is the first step. Congratulations! Knowing you don’t have what you want is the first step toward getting it. Having the courage to reach out and get the help you need to make those changes happen is the second. I have the experience, knowledge and skills to help you create the relationship you desire and deserve.

Recent Blog Articles


4 Steps to Take Control of Your Sex and Your Life

Isn't it time you stopped making your partner or your current circumstances responsible for your happiness and sexual pleasure? The truth is, most of us unwittingly sabotage our pleasure by focusing on what we don't have or want more of. When you are single, you crave a relationship, and … [Read More]

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Caught: When Infidelity Hits Home – Now What?

How it Feels: On some level, one of the best ways anyone can relate to what it feels like to catch your spouse cheating is akin to how the world felt on 9/11. I bet you know exactly where you were and what you were doing when you found out.  Your life, and time itself, stopped. Living in New York, … [Read More]

Porn Addiction

Am I Addicted?

This heated question is one that therapists, psychologists and mental health clinicians can’t seem to agree on.  And while it might be a debatable whether usage of porn and sex can actually cross into classical addictive behavior, what most professionals can agree on is that countess individuals … [Read More]

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Good Enough Sex

I know when I first heard the term “Good Enough Sex” I thought to myself, wow….this is a menopausal model of sex …..I mean that until such time as age does impact our hormones and therefore how readily we can become aroused  I wouldn’t want to set my sights on this type of sex. After all, the … [Read More]

Just say thanks

Savor The Moments

  I’m inviting you to notice today, what are the moments that speak to you in a way that your natural response is to smile, say ahhh…… In any day, there of course will likely be frustrations, disappointments, that of course are obvious and our minds/brain of course wants to dwell on … [Read More]

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