Resources and Recommendations

I get asked all of the time for my “favorites”: the best books, toys, products, and programs that I’ve tried and my clients have consistently had great experiences with.  That siad, we are all our own expert. We know what we know and like… but we can’t know what we haven’t yet tried. This page is a great place to get curious and explore your heart’s greatest desires and pleasures for your relationships and your sex life!

To get started, I encourage you to explore all of the options and resources on this page and no matter what you pick, try, try, again.  Way too many people invest in a sex toy and use it once or sometimes, it never leaves the box.  Lastly, when it comes to sex toys, I highly recommend that you talk about them and introduce them outside of the bedroom but that you only try them on when you are already highly aroused. Without further ado, here’s a list of my favorites!


Toys & Products


Books on Sexuality and Relationships

Mating in Captivity

Unlocking Erotic Intelligence

Esther Perel

Come As You Are

The surprising new science that will transform your sex life

Emily Nagoski

She Comes First

The thinking man’s guide to pleasuring a woman

Ian Kerner

A Billion Wicked Thoughts

What the world’s largest experiment reveals about human desire

Ogas & Gaddam

The Erotic Mind

Unlocking the inner sources of passion and fulfillment

Jack Morin


The secret logic of sexual fantasies

Michael Bader

The State of Affairs

Rethinking Infidelity

Esther Perel

Disclaimer: I’m a proud affiliate for some of these productss, which means that I receive a small commission if you purchase through me. It doesn’t cost you extra. I’ve spend years researching and testing sex toys and only share products that I love and consistently hear rave reviews from clients.

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