Resources and Recommendations
I get asked all of the time for my “favorites”: the best books, toys, products, and programs that I’ve tried and my clients have consistently had great experiences with. That siad, we are all our own expert. We know what we know and like… but we can’t know what we haven’t yet tried. This page is a great place to get curious and explore your heart’s greatest desires and pleasures for your relationships and your sex life!
To get started, I encourage you to explore all of the options and resources on this page and no matter what you pick, try, try, again. Way too many people invest in a sex toy and use it once or sometimes, it never leaves the box. Lastly, when it comes to sex toys, I highly recommend that you talk about them and introduce them outside of the bedroom but that you only try them on when you are already highly aroused. Without further ado, here’s a list of my favorites!
Programs
Toys & Products
Books
Mating in Captivity
Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
Esther Perel
Come As You Are
The surprising new science that will transform your sex life
Emily Nagoski
She Comes First
The thinking man’s guide to pleasuring a woman
Ian Kerner
A Billion Wicked Thoughts
What the world’s largest experiment reveals about human desire
Ogas & Gaddam
The Erotic Mind
Unlocking the inner sources of passion and fulfillment
Jack Morin
Arousal
The secret logic of sexual fantasies
Michael Bader
The State of Affairs
Rethinking Infidelity
Esther Perel
Disclaimer: I’m a proud affiliate for some of these productss, which means that I receive a small commission if you purchase through me. It doesn’t cost you extra. I’ve spend years researching and testing sex toys and only share products that I love and consistently hear rave reviews from clients.