Dr. Megan is currently the resident expert on sex therapy for Girl Boner, an amazing podcast, blog and community hosted by August McLaughlin, is now one of the blogosphere’s top resources on sex and relationships. Listen below to some of her recent podcasts. Dr. Megan makes talking about difficult topics easy and makes her audience relax.
Porn Sex Versus Reality with Jayden Lee. In a culture and education system where folks learn extremely little about sex and sexuality, countless turn to porn—not only for convenient stimulation, but for knowledge. You’ll hear how Jayden became involved in adult film, her thoughts on phone sex and Dr. Megan Fleming‘s advice for a listener who doesn’t enjoy giving oral. Loved her tips! April 14, 2016.
Empowering Ways to Talk Sexy. Last week, I chatted with Ashley Manta, a sex educator who radiates sex-positive passion and enthusiasm. As an educator and former phone-sex operator, Ashley knows quite a few things about talking sexy. You’ll also learn Dr. Megan‘s thoughts for a listener who feels a lot less sexually adventurous than her partner. March 28, 2016.
How to REALLY Get Body-Positive. August interviews Melissa Toler, a fab body image coach who knows body-loathing and the freedom from it well. After twenty-five years of compulsive dieting, she found her way to self and body embracement. (Woot!)You’ll also learn signs your “lifestyle plan” is a risky diet in disguise, how such plans can interfere with your sex life and Dr. Megan Fleming‘s tips on sex positions when you have a retroverted uterus. March 21, 2016.
5 Little Known Facts About Your Period. Whether you wish to party along with me or simply learn a bit more about your cycle, listen to my latest episode. The stories in the episode are pretty LOL-funny. You’ll hear funny period stories from me, Dr. Megan and three friends/fans, a Q&A on period sex and the scoop on talking to young girls about menstruation. It’s a quickie episode — just over 20 minutes. March 14, 2016.
Sex, Grief and Abundance with Lauren Marie Fleming. “She wins who calls herself beautiful and challenges the world to change to truly see her.” — Naomi Wolf, The Beauty Myth. Today August interviews Lauren Marie Fleming who epitomizes this quote, calls herself an “uppity love rebel,” and takes the guilty out of pleasure—not only for herself. Hear what Dr. Megan, Lauren and I had to say to a listener who’s struggling to regain her sex drive after sudden heartbreak March 3, 2016.
Sexuality and Eating Disorders. You’ll hear from Tye Riviera Handley, a nutritionist who’s noticed prevalence of eating disorders in the male fitness community, and Kendra Tanner, of The True You Project, who contributed a beautiful story for Embraceable. Also, listen to Dr. Megan and my responses to a listener’s question about bulimia and low-libido. February 25, 2016.
Who’s Your Sexy Alter-Ego? My Chat with Dillion Harper. In a world that tries to tell us who we should be, in and outside of the bedroom, every woman who stands on her own feet and declares, “Take me as I am!” is a superhero, IMO. You’ll also hear Dr. Megan Fleming’s response to a listener’s question: Can guys have multiple orgasms? If so, how? (Hint: the answer is yes, but it takes practice!) February 22, 2016.
How Sexual Energy Arouses Creative Genius + Sexy Self-Care. August interviews Sandra LaMorgese, PhD, a holistic sexuality expert and author who became a dominatrix later in life, on sex and creativity. Then Dr. Megan Fleming calls in to discuss sexy self-care and how to cultivate it even when you’re stressed or depressed. February 11, 2016.
Clitoral Orgasm FAQ and Clitorings. The clitoris is so much more than a “pleasure button!” August interviews Orien Mcneill, artist and creator of the Clitoring, then explores frequently asked questions about clitoral climaxes. Then Dr. Megan Fleming responds to a question from a listener: how can she make her “sleep-gasms” stop? February 5, 2016.
Finding Love and Rekindling Desire. August interviews life and love coach Hayley Quinn about “slut”-shaming, harmful dating strategies and how to find your dream relationship—once you’re ready. (Hint: Work on you first.) Then Dr. Megan Fleming joins in with tips for improving lost libido and getting your “sexy” back. January 28, 2016.
Fat Acceptance and Healing from Sexual Trauma. In the latest on Girl Boner® Radio, August interviews Dawn Serra, sex educator and cohost of Sex Gets Real, on her personal journey, including her sex-positive childhood, how she’s found healing from sexual trauma and her thoughts on fat acceptance. Then Dr. Megan Fleming responds to a listener struggling with clitoral pain and missing orgasms. January 21, 2016.
Good Karma Dining and Staying Sexy for Life. August interviews Victoria Moran, a bestselling author, longtime vegan and wellness advocate about her journey from compulsive overeating to thriving. Learn ways to lead a compassionate lifestyle for a sexier life, stop the binge-eating cycle, age vibrantly and more. Then Dr. Megan Fleming responds to a listener whose husband is struggling with erectile dysfunction. There is hope (and pleasure) to be had! January 14, 2016.
What You Can Learn About Sex From Science Fiction. August interviews Nicole Minsk, author of I Know How You Feel: The Sensate, and shares thoughts from two erotica writers, Cecilia Tan and Annabeth Leong: What can sci-fi teach us about sex and sexuality? (Hint: a whole lot!) Then Dr. Megan Fleming shares ways to use erotic stories to enhance sex and intimacy. Join the spicy fun! January 7, 2016.
Celebrating 100 Episodes, EMBRACEABLE and Sexy Resolve. August and former guest, stylist Rayne Parvis, turn the tables! Rayne interviews August about her new book, EMBRACEABLE, Girl Boner® Radio and more. Plus, learn about sexy New Year’s Resolutions with Dr. Megan Fleming. January 2, 2016.
Depression, Relationships and the Holidays. If the winter season or holiday stress has you down or depressed, you’re far from alone. Listen as August interviews Jema, a traveler, writer and photographer, about her journey with depression. Learn what prompted her to seek help, how she’s learned to thrive and more. Then August chats with Dr. Megan Fleming about the holidays and depression. Symptoms can be managed, and loved ones can really help! December 17, 2015.
Erotica Writing with Rachel Kramer Bussel. Have you ever daydreamed about putting your sexy fantasies down on the page? Listen in as August interviews Rachel Kramer Bussel, an accomplished erotica author, editor and blogger, who travels the country leading workshops on erotica writing. Learn common mistakes writers make when writing kinky scenes, what Rachel finds toughest about the craft and more. Then hear Dr. Megan Fleming‘s response to a listener’s question: How can she fulfill her BDSM desires when her guy refuses to go there? December 10, 2015.
Kinky Compassion + Sexy Holiday Gifts. Have you ever felt stuck in an unhealthy relationship or struggled to heal in the aftermath? Jennifer Elliot says you should know you’re not alone—and your sexuality may hold keys to the healing you desire. You’ll also learn about sexy holiday gifts, with help from Dr. Megan Fleming—plus an exciting offer! December 3, 2015.
Sex, Dating and Reality TV: A Chat with Jasmine Waltz. August chats with the model and entertainment personality about her experience starring in “Celebrity Big Brother,” her career path, her biggest turn-ons and more. Then Dr. Megan Fleming calls in for a Q&A on sex tapes and erotic photography. November 19, 2015.
Tech and Dating Trends with Ashley Papa. Learn ways to increase your odds of online dating success, red flags to look out for in the first few dates, how an intentional break from sex can help once you’re in a relationship and more. You’ll also hear Dr. Megan Fleming‘s response to a listener’s email on stigmas around masturbation. November 12, 2015.
“The Sex Myth” with Author Rachel Hills. Listen as August interviews the author on the personal experience that inspired The Sex Myth, how mass media affects our beliefs about sex, gender-related expectations and more. You’ll also hear what August and Dr. Megan Fleming have to say to a listener who has developed strong sexual aversion since having kids. November 5, 2015.
Breast Cancer and Sexuality + a Girl Boner Grab Bag. “Addressing sexuality and the impact of cancer and its treatment on one’s sex life and intimacy with their partner is, in my mind, too often excluded.” — Megan Fleming, PhD. October 30, 2015.
Kind Living and How to Feel Sexy As A Mom, Listen as August interviews Pauline Campos, LATINA columnist and author of BabyFat: Adventures in Motherhood, MuffinTops, & Trying to Stay Sane, and Katie Cleary, creator of Peace4Animals. You’ll also hear from Dr. Megan Fleming on the importance of prioritizing sexy self-care time, plus a challenge she’d love for you to take on. October 22, 2015.
Myths About Affairs and Infidelity. There may be as many myths about affairs as there are people who’ve had them. Here, August explores a few common misconceptions about infidelity and interviews Katie Paul, a writer who had an affair she isn’t ashamed of and has gone on to find happiness in life and love. Then Dr. Megan Fleming shares ways to heal lingering insecurities after learning of a partner’s affair. October 15, 2015.
#AskDrMegan: When Is Porn-Use a Problem? “Ultimately, sexuality and intimacy are about giving and receiving pleasure.” — Megan Fleming, PhD. Last year after speaking at the National Women’s Studies Association annual conference on ways the digital age affects how women feel about their bodies and sexuality, I hung around to take one-on-one questions. I quickly realized that the entire presentation could’ve easily centered on one of my sub-topics: porn. October 10, 2015.
Adult Film Adventures with Moe “the Monster” Johnson. Listen in as August chats with adult film star Moe “the Monster” Johnson about his provocative career path, interracial dating, his biggest turn-on and turn-off and more. You’ll also hear Dr. Megan Fleming‘s fabulous thoughts on two common concerns about porn. October 8, 2015.
Suzy Favor Hamilton: Her Life Spent Running From Madness. Listen as August interviews Suzy about her journey thus far—how she’s found the path to wellness, what she hopes others will learn from her story and more. You’ll also hear from Dr. Megan Fleming, on deciphering between a healthy high sex drive and a hypersexual red flag and how we can best support a partner grappling with mental illness. October 3, 2015.
Empowering Makeup Tips with Katarina Van Derham. Listen in as she chats with August about her career path, practical, soul-nourishing makeup tips and more. You’ll also hear Dr. Megan Fleming‘s thoughts on why some women don’t realize it when they climax, and why it’s important to turn ourselves on. (Amen!) October 1, 2015.
Bisexuality Awareness: Myths, Coming Out and How to Be an Ally. August interviews Emmie Mears, author of Storm in a Teacup and The Masked Songbird, on her experience as a bisexual woman. Learn common myths about bisexuality, how the orientation affects health, sex and relationships, how it varies from fluid sexuality and more. Then Dr. Megan Fleming responds to a listener, who asks: how can she date a bisexual man without fearing she won’t fulfill his needs and desires? September 24, 2015.
Sexy Perks of Tantra Plus Kink and How to Manage Vaginismus. Tantra and kink may seem like polar opposites, but they aren’t, say sex educators Gerard Gatz and Dawn Beck. In the latest on Girl Boner® Radio, learn how the two methodologies can benefit each other and your relationship. Then Dr. Megan Fleming responds to a listener’s concerns about vaginismus. How can a woman with high sex drive who can’t be penetrated have gratifying sex and relationships? September 18, 2015.
Coping With Break Ups And 10 Tantalizing Turn-ons. Listen in as August shares a wonky breakup experience of her own then interviews Dr. Joy on breakup dos and don’ts, how to know when you’re ready to move onto another relationship and more. You’ll also hear Dr. Megan Fleming‘s response to a listener who wants to help her boyfriend understand that a simple touch or glance is not enough for her arousal and learn ten tantalizing ways to send your Girl Boner® reeling! September 10, 2015.
How To Feel Sexy At Any Shape, Height or Size. “She wins who calls herself beautiful and challenges the world to change to truly see her.” — Naomi Wolf. Do you ever feel less sexy because you’re not as tall, curvy or thin as you (or society) would like? Or longed to step off the dieting bandwagon for good? If so, this episode is for you. Plus, Dr. Megan Fleming returns with advice for a man who wants to help his wife feel more attractive in the bedroom. September 3, 2015.
Breathgasm and Tantra Tips, July 30th, 2015 Dr. Megan Fleming addresses sex and spirituality and a bright sign of menopause, then presents a challenge for Girl Boner® listeners: What story do you tell yourself about your sexuality? What will you do about it?
Swinging Myths and Hot Girls Wanted, July 24th, 2015 August interviews Jack Spade and Ariana Marie, adult industry professionals and a devoted couple who’ve embraced the swinging lifestyle. As the owner of adult agencies and a former performer, Spade has strong views on the Netflix documentary produced by Rashida Jones, “Hot Girls Wanted.” The couple shares their take on the film, what aspiring adult performers should consider and debunks common myths about swingers. (No, they aren’t all kink-crazed, anti-relationship folks!) Plus, Dr. Megan Fleming answers a listener’s question on slut-shaming.
Libido Myths and Middle Age, July 16th, 2015 In this episode of Girl Boner® Radio, August explores five sex drive myths. Dr. Megan Fleming shares thoughts on sex drive differences for a listener.
August interviews Liz Miele, a Brooklyn-based standup comedian whose Feminist Sex Positions video went (rightfully!) viral. Liz also helps August answer the wackiest sex questions from Girl Boner® fans, and Dr. Megan Fleming shares the best sex positions for ultimate female pleasure. July 9th, 2015.
Body Image Language, Changes And High Heels, July 7th, 2015. There’s little I love more than exploring empowering topics with kick-ass folks who have not only learned to embrace their bodies and selves, but pay it forward by inspiring the same in others. Dr. Megan was kind enough to answer a few follow-up questions for this post. I love that she not only speaks as an experienced clinician, but as a real woman who knows these trials (and how to move past them) herself.
Depression, PTSD and Empowerment, July 2nd, 2015 August interviews award-winning filmmaker Jill Morley, whose documentary, Fight Like a Girl, features women who use boxing to fight their demons and find empowerment. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on how depression affects intimacy and four ways to cope.
Hope And Healing After Sexual Abuse, June 25th, 2015 Then Dr. Megan Fleming explores ways to cultivate healthy intimacy after sexual trauma, taking questions from August and a brave listener. #AskDrMegan
Topless Yoga: How to Cultimate “Belly Out” Self Confidence, June 18th, 2015 Girl Boner®’s current relationships expert, Dr. Megan Fleming, weighs in on the link between body image and sexuality and how to embrace both. She’s learned to improve her own attitudes about her body and openly shares how.
Erotic Art And Dating Hilarity, June 4th, 2015 Dr. Megan Fleming shares a hilarious sex memory of her own and answers listeners’ questions on having “the sex talk” with kids and what to do if your sexual desires mismatch your partner’s.
I Dated A Sociopath, Part 2, May 28th, 2015 Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on how to initiate sex (when doing so feels awkward) and how to know when you’re ready for a new relationship after a rocky breakup.ch your partner’s.
I Dated A Sociopath, Part 1, May 21st, 2015 In Part I of Girl Boner’s dating-a-sociopath series, August interviews both women on their journeys—how they met their exes, the red flags that emerged, how they broke free, lessons learned from the experience and how they eventually progressed from victims to survivors to thrivers. Dr. Megan answers questions from a listener who is currently involved with a sociopath. .
Life On The Run: A True Story Of A Sex Icon’s Daughter, May 14th, 2015 August also shares self-pleasure tips from Dr. Megan Fleming, in honor of National Masturbation Month. .
Sexy Abundance: Relationship Happiness and Money Attitudes, May 7th, 2015 Do you have a sexy relationship with money? Many women don’t. August explores how to cultivate financial and relationship wealth with psychologist Dr. Megan Fleming and Rick Gabrielly, host of The Marriage Boss.
Bring the Sexy Back with Dr. Megan Fleming, March 26th, 2015 A new Cosmo study shows that the orgasm gap between men and women is very real. August explores these findings then interviews Dr. Megan Fleming, a therapist set on helping women reclaim their sexiness and cultivate the love lives they deserve. Learn practical ways to embrace your body, about sexual pressures men face, how to better communicate with your partner and more.
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